Your enemies = your teachers.
Your failure = your wisdom.
Your mistakes = your lucky discoveries.
Your conflicts = your growth opportunities.
Your undesired endings = your desirable beginnings.
Your grapes of wrath = your raisons d’etre.
Your painful feelings = your proud proof that you are dealing with your feelings—head on!
And there’s a freebee bonus benefit to doing the above…You begin to be less judgmental about your: rage, fear, pain, conflicts, and disappointments…not only for what has happened in the past but also when it comes to your present and future.
Read more: http://www.oprah.com/spirit/How-to-Be-Happy-Dammit/7#ixzz1mZQFpuFM